Ten Reasons Why So Many Pretty Career Women Are Side Chicks

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View pictures in App save up to 80% data.There are some salient things that keep these ladies firmly in the side-chick situation.

1. They have an inflated sense of their value and so they feel that cannot “settle” for an average Joe. They will overlook the available men yet the men they want are already married.

2. They will work hard and make money. As they make more money, they feel they deserve men with more money and end up pushing themselves out of the dating market. The kind of men they often want are very few (make up less than 10% of the population) and are usually married.

3. Most of these kinds of women are good looking, well-dressed and classy. They can also take care of their bills and feel that they can help men build empires. Most of them are “boss chicks.” The problem with boss chicks is that they are not submissive. The competitive demands of the corporate world have drained them of their feminine energy and feminine qualities. The men they want are the kinds of men who don’t want their money and want submissive, cooperative women. So what happens is that these men smash them on the side but never wife them up.

4. These beautiful career women are often in their thirties, many of them weigh in at 40 years plus. This means they have hit the wall and their sexual agency has declined. These ladies however, labor under the mistaken belief that having money and a good career can make up for their lost youthfulness and they refuse to lower their expectations. Unfortunately, money and material possessions don’t make up for beauty and femininity. Women in such positions who are realistic often settle for broke men who need their money. But these ladies, unfortunately, don’t respect such men (basic bums) and they often kick them out after getting baby number x

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5. They think that men value them for their money. They do not realize that men value femininity more than they could ever value money. Successful men who have done the work don’t want what Kevin Samuels calls “leftovers.” They want single, childless, feminine women, not boss ladies. They don’t mind having the ladies in question as side chicks though.

6. These ladies are often not looking for husbands even though they are unaware of this fact. When they say they are looking for men, when you scratch the surface, you realize very quickly that they are looking for a lifestyle, not a man. And they view men as utilities to give them the lifestyle they think they deserve, not someone to give peace and comfort. These ladies will be quick to tell you that they can’t work so hard and be successful only to marry a man who is not at their level.

7. These ladies often view men as either utilities (something to use) or as something to fear. They are wary of submitting to men because they think the men will abuse that submission and tyrannize them. They cling tightly to their careers or their mothers (a post about this later), maintain a combative, sassy and argumentative countenance. This attitude that is grounded in bad faith often turns prospective husbands away.

8. They are blue pill women. The blue pill tells women that they can have it all. Having it all means being beautiful, getting highly educated, getting a good career and then getting a fit, good-looking, rich husband when you are at the top of your career.

This is what we see being portrayed in Holywood movies. Well, ladies, it doesn’t happen in reality. These women also believe in the blue pill fantasy that tells women that their beauty is evergreen. They are told that even when in your forties, you are still as beautiful as you were in your twenties. BS magazines like Ebony and Cosmopolitan even sell them youth serums and ambrosias that can allegedly keep them young and vibrant. These fantasies keep these ladies from facing reality and taking what they can get.

They end up living their adult lives as side chicks. I have a section in UNPLUGGED that deals with the blue pill for women.

9. Lastly, beautiful women know that they are beautiful. By teenage, they know they are better than other girls (after all, they spend so much time before a mirror). Many of the beautiful girls grow up with grandiose expectations from life.

They reject good men, one after the other as they wait for the perfect man.

Ladies, by the way, a man who is rich, handsome, well endowed, faithful, tall, confident, great in bed, well-spoken and smart DOES NOT EXIST. Get that through your heads. You must compromise some of these qualities. Perfect men don’t exist.

Anyways, so, these women cling onto these unrealistic expectations as their friends continue getting married. They trash their friends’ marriages or dismiss them and say mara ooh, “watawachana tu” or, “not everyone is made for marriage” or “he married a broke guy” or, “how could she settle down with such a fat, ugly man” etc. As Kevin Samuels says, buy a dog and die alone.

10. They are problem women with unresolved childhood trauma that makes them unable to enjoy intimacy and pair bond with men. Sometimes they have sketchy baby daddies and are laboring under unattended disorders like BPD, NPD and other mental health issues. They attract drama and are unable to give a man peace because of their maladjustments. Men see these red flags and save themselves. Such women are incapable of looking at the poor outcomes in their lives and instead point and sputter at men for their single status.


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