7 Ways to make a man commit to marrying you without pressure.

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View pictures in App save up to 80% data.I don’t think there is any topic as thought after by single women as commitment. Because every year it gets harder and harder, it seems, to get a man to commit to a relationship.

But I don’t even blame them. With the many options out there to meet women, a lot of guys have a hard time making a decision.

Men will commit when they are given the freedom to. The more you try to get a man to commit, the less successful you will be. Because the truth is you can’t get a man to commit, you can only inspire him to commit.



Here are ways you can ake a man commit without pressure.

1. Self-Confidence

There is nothing worse for a man than a woman who is desperate to be in a relationship.

Because desperation communicates to him that you lack self-respect and will do and accept anyone and anything to be in a relationship.

On the other hand, when you are self-confident and know your God-given value, you inspire him to commit to you. Because now he sees that you have your own identity and happiness outside of him. 

Which takes the pressure off of him to be your source of fulfillment and gives him the reassurance that both of you will be able to pour into the relationship and elevate each other’s life.

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2. Giving him Space

A close second after self-confidence is, whether or not you are clingy or needy. Men need a sense of freedom even when they are in a committed relationship. They don’t want to feel like they are losing their identity, once they started dating. 

Therefore, one thing you can do is to give him space by continuing to live your own best life. No matter if you are already dating or just met, don’t give up on all your plans, passions, and projects for him. 

Instead keep doing you by hanging out with your friends, partaking in your favorite hobbies/ activities, and pursuing your own dreams. 

Doing that will ensure that you stay sane and show him that being in a relationship doesn’t mean that he has to give up who he is. 

3. Connect emotionally

My number 1 relationship advice for women who are wondering how to make him commit without pressure, is to build an emotional connection with a man through vulnerability. 

Vulnerability is a powerful tool that allows healthy couples to open up to each other by creating a safe space. In comparison to women, most men do not have an emotional support system. They do not have a sister, cousin, or best friend that they can open up to. 

As a consequence, a lot of men never explore or deal with their fears, worries, or pain. As a woman, you can create a safe space for a man to express his feelings, by being vulnerable yourself. 

Show him that he doesn’t need to be perfect around you, but can be his authentic self. Once he feels safe enough with you to be vulnerable you become special to him. So special that he will fear losing you. 

He will want to hold on to you even if that means giving up his beloved bachelor’s life and commit to you. 

4. Set and maintain healthy boundaries

Contrary to popular belief, clearly communicating what you expect in a relationship is good. In order to gain a man’s respect and interest, you have to communicate your standards and boundaries in a respectful and feminine way right from the beginning. 

By doing that you equip him with the necessary knowledge and tools to successfully pursue you. Let him know politely, what you expect from him in a dating, committed or marriage relationship and tell him what you will provide in return. 

Let him show you that he understands what is required of him before you increase your attention, your interest, and your emotional investment in the relationship.   

And you will be surprised to learn that the right guy will feel inspired and encouraged to commit to you, while the wrong guy will run for the hills. 

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5. Upgrade his life

Okay, this tip on how to make him commit without pressure may seem a little hard at first, but it’s easier than you think.

I truly believe that the only reason why anyone should ever want to leave singleness and decide to enter a committed relationship is that it is an upgrade to your life. 

Meaning that being with each other feels better for both of you than being alone. More fun, more purpose, more love. Simple.

That’s why the best way to get a guy that doesn’t want a relationship to commit is to upgrade his life, by showing him that your presence adds value.

That doesn’t mean that you have to change who you are in order to appeal to a man. Instead, it means you have to be 100% your true self and let him experience the quirky, goofy, and emotional you. 

Only then will he be able to discern whether you are someone he wants to add to his life or not. Upgrading his life means that you bring a unique twist that no other woman can because there is only one you. .And that is what will inspire him to take it to the next level.

6. Make him invest in you

One of the best ways to make a man commit without pressure is to give him a stake in the relationship. It is psychologically proven that people care more about the things they put the effort in. 

When you challenge a man to be his best and meet your standards while dating exclusively, he will be more likely to want to commit. Because now he has already invested in you and the relationship. 

A man wants a relationship that benefits him as much as you want a relationship that benefits you. And that does not only include a financial investment. Dating means that you invest time, energy, and emotions into the other person. 

In addition, being in a relationship often requires compromises and sacrifices to accommodate each other. 

7. Show him that you are his match

One of the things I have come to learn about men is that they will examine a relationship as if it was a business deal. He wants to know that the woman he is with brings desired values to the table. 

These values can be financial, intellectual, physical, and more. Sometimes he will look for someone that is on his level, sometimes he will look for someone that possesses a quality that he doesn’t.

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Whatever his criteria are that make him feel like he has found a match. A man wants a relationship that benefits him as much as you want a relationship that benefits you. 

So, as a woman, you have to be honest and examine what you bring to the table. How can you naturally improve his life, without having to change or to overextend yourself? 

So before you ask how to make him commit without pressure, ask yourself those questions first

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